![]() ![]() This competitiveness is at cross purposes with the Two’s desire to be admired for virtue however, so the Two tends to keep this dynamic in check and is frequently unaware of its existence. Twos who adopt the seductive approach are often competitive with members of the same sex and jealous of those they deem more desirable. Seductive Twos are often performers or entertainers they simultaneously give their performance while receiving the adulation of their audience. This might seem at odds with the description of Twos as being “mothering,” but both seductiveness and nurturing are manifestations of the same unconsciously manipulative desire to find a way to engage the other’s attention. Twos are often seductive in their presentation. This is true whether the Two is male or female, although these qualities will typically be societally reinforced in female Twos and somewhat suppressed in males. Twos are also drawn to the role of parent – specifically what we traditionally think of as the more nurturing, mothering role. Metaphorically speaking, the Two is not afraid of rolling up the sleeves and getting the hands dirty. ![]() They tend to be practical people who thrive in the “hands on” helping professions such as teaching, nursing and counseling. They place a very high value on their personal relationships and devote an enormous amount of time and energy to them. They are emotionally demonstrative and are generally comfortable with the physical expression of emotions. They need to be appreciated they need to be needed they need to receive a considerable amount of attention and gratitude. In reality, the situation is a bit more complex, as Twos also have needs. They want to occupy a central position in the lives of chosen others, and they accomplish this by being “indispensable.” From the standpoint of the Two, it is always others who are needy and dependent, not the Two. Twos see themselves as being not only strong enough to care for themselves, but able to care for others as well. This places Twos, even though they are serving others, in a sort of “one up” position with respect to those they are serving. Twos have a built in radar for what the other might need, and they see themselves as the correct person for satisfying that need. You are your fire guardian.People of Enneatype Two are essentially related to other people, and they relate to them from a standpoint of helpfulness. ![]() Sometimes an unconditional love state is like a sparkle, take care of the ember as your life depends on it (and it does) lightly blow the fire, be picky of what you are feeding with. I can affirm it with my own existence but it’s like a math problem: sometimes you get to the result and don’t know how! Let’s discover the procedure, let’s explore ourselves. ![]() However, I took a look sometimes, I know that exists. I am in the same path of you, healing, everyday I keep drawing thorns from the depth of my heart as the song says. Is It Possible To Reach An Unconditional Love State? Spoiler: No matter what you do, you don’t love them as they want them either. Some people say that love is more like a leap of faith, you will never know what’s ahead or what’s really happening inside other people ( if we don’t even see clearly inside ourselves) even so the only way to keep walking through the blindness of future is with love. There is nothing you can do but be yourself to get genuine love. The one who loves you will still do it in the darkest hours. How Will I Be Loved If I Don’t Do Anything To Deserve It? *We are tired because we are always fighting with our natural self. Be servicial, unconditional, kind, and affectionate with you. Forgive yourself and embody your own mission. Love has nothing to do with control (repeat it: love has nothing to do with control). Now it’s your responsibility to heal yourself. It sounds more easy than it really is but be first your own mother and father, race yourself again with the love you needed. It took so much time to grow and learn and we are tired* so finding out we still have a backlog could be hard. Maybe, when you find it you’ll feel ashamed because we don’t want to accept our illness, our needs. First of all, it’s necessary to identify with surgical precision, where your pain is. Every human being is on the path of learning how to love from the soul instead of the ego and that’s why enneagram and other tools are useful. You are not broken, failed or complicated. How Can I Love From My Soul Rather Than From My Ego? ![]()
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